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Re: The TwiLyme Zone

Posted: Thu 8 Apr 2010 21:26
by Spanky
"Fin24"
thank you for that, as hard as it was for you!!! well written and well said!!!!

HUH? Why are you thanking me for apologizing to Cobby? What business is it of yours?

I SAID:

I ALREADY APOLOGIZED TO HER.

And it wasn't "hard" at all...YOU should try it, sometime.

Re: The TwiLyme Zone

Posted: Thu 8 Apr 2010 21:30
by Fin24
And you girls need to be careful with that word "Nazi". That's not nice.
you know Id have said the same thing:

http://www.lymeneteurope.org/forum/view ... azi#p21120

nazi attributions and pics were flying all over the place

and this from Spank:
When someone gets my blood up (this happens, sometimes)...my reaction isn't to call them "evil"...I think, what a "flaming Nazi zombie a*****e".
why a NAZI flaming zombie a-hole?? why add that qualifier??

and hv808ct said this re BettyG
A self-appointed Nazi copy editor obsessed with how people type
so the term/word has been used frequently here in many contexts.is that also "not nice"??

Re: The TwiLyme Zone

Posted: Thu 8 Apr 2010 21:40
by Spanky
"Fin24
why a NAZI flaming zombie a-hole?? why add that qualifier??

Look, Finette...this is getting boring...and incredibly STUPID. But just in case your education in these matters is somehow deficient:

NAZI ZOMBIES ARE NOT REAL. Flaming, charcoal-broiled or otherwise.

There is no such thing. Except, maybe in some movies and some video games.

Okay? Got that?

So, it's not like people were posting links to the Nuremberg rallies or the Horst Wessel Lied, or any c**p like that, okay?

Just laughing.

And so, no, I don't really care, myself to hear or read stuff about the "Nazi" posts here.

And if you don't like it...well, I used to know where to file everything around here...and I can tell you where to file that one...and I only need one finger to point the way.

Now why don't we just drop this...as this is not productive...or is that what you want, here?

Re: The TwiLyme Zone

Posted: Fri 9 Apr 2010 2:38
by Fin24
Now why don't we just drop this...as this is not productive

AGREED!!!

Re: The TwiLyme Zone

Posted: Fri 9 Apr 2010 3:15
by Spanky
Fin24 wrote:
Now why don't we just drop this...as this is not productive

AGREED!!!

This your idea of dropping it?

http://lymegate.ning.com/
well well well--Spanky waves a white flag?!

all I can say is about freaking time--while mildly entertaining at times he can be very high maintenance--no wonder his wife ran away--musta had to chew thru them straps to do so, too!!

Re: The TwiLyme Zone

Posted: Fri 9 Apr 2010 4:16
by admin
Spanky wrote:
Fin24 wrote:
Now why don't we just drop this...as this is not productive

AGREED!!!

This your idea of dropping it?
well well well--Spanky waves a white flag?!

all I can say is about freaking time--while mildly entertaining at times he can be very high maintenance--no wonder his wife ran away--musta had to chew thru them straps to do so, too!!
Yeah, and then complain for not being received here with open arms and a warm welcome. Inviting us to come join "LymeGate" in spite of all the trash talk about LNE and its members is also quite surreal...

Your brain is also failing you, Fin24, amongst others making connections that aren't there. For example in your reply to Yvonne you connect "being friends" with "always agree with", while Yvonne didn't say anything like that. BTW with your nasty reply to Yvonne you have confirmed that you both indeed aren't close friends. Noticed the word "close"? Did you miss that or do you also have your own definition of that?

YOU are the class clown, Fin24. But not a funny one...

Now go run to cave76... she will always agree with you, so she is definately a close friend!

Re: The TwiLyme Zone

Posted: Fri 9 Apr 2010 4:38
by Cobwebby
Spanky- I think we did a pretty good job of working through our misunderstanding-both openly on board and in the PMs. I'm grateful you took the time and effort.

I was never able to do that on LG . One wrong move and thar she blows.

Re: The TwiLyme Zone

Posted: Fri 9 Apr 2010 4:56
by Spanky
Cobwebby"
Spanky- I think we did a pretty good job of working through our misunderstanding-both openly on board and in the PMs. I'm grateful you took the time and effort.

Thanks, Cobby. Nice of you.

Re: The TwiLyme Zone

Posted: Fri 9 Apr 2010 7:38
by Fin24
I dont think my brain is failing so much as some here manufacture reasons and excuses to find fault with only some folks--while others are given free passes..if I can accept that, then perhaps those others should accept that away from here they cant dictate what is and is not said. I said Id drop that discussion HERE and did exactly that.

as far as my brain....
FYI-I posted the following merely to illustrate that Yvonne and I had made a "connection" and I assumed HAD behaved as if we were "friends" to refute the childish " no one wants you here" nonsense thats part of Spank's bag o' tricks:
AND long time member Yvonne--one of many-- sends me greetings regularly here and in private email
Note that I did NOT apply any qualifier--'close' or otherwise--I never stated or implied any "closeness" other than beyond "more than just another poster"--since when does "sends me greetings regularly even imply anything beyond "friends'???

Yvonne then posted
I have had it up to here that you mention my name like we are close friends. We aren't !

Nobody is just my friend.


and then it appears as if she lists reasons why I was indeed mistaken about the friendship and not "just her friend"
-one: if I were really her friend that I wouldnt send her a greeting of " hope all is well with you" since I should already know this--which IMO is ABSURD as Ive explained- the colloquialism here meant is " havent heard from you in awhile so I hope all is well"--why ASK if you dont think youre friends??

or do you not use that greeting in the Netherlands??

-two- second reason for me to see that Im not "just her friend"- that she agrees more with Spanky than I ( again I repeat--implied as a reason I shouldnt have assumed we are "friends")
Yvonne wrote as part of that list "AND to be clear" which sounds an awful lot like " and another reason we are not friends is":
And to be clear: in most topics I agree more frequently with Spanky than with you
and so by her implying that she doesnt always agree with me ( by stating that she does more times agree with Spank) as one of her listed reasons for not being "friends", it was IMO a valid and pertinent connection

hence my question
Do you just say "friend" about ONLY the people you DO always agree with?? I dont
after all did she not say " nobody is just my friend"?? and then list reasons why that was and why I therefore was not "just her friend"????

so explain to me how she didnt say anything like that?? or that my brain failed with a connection?

you sorta ask:
Noticed the word "close"? Did you miss that or do you also have your own definition of that?
Yes,I saw the word "close" and since I never applied that qualifier to the type of friendship I assumed ( again MY bad) I also saw the very next thing she wrote " not just my friend"--what I took to mean not ANY kind of friend.

as for my definition of "close" friend--I didnt define that--Yvonne did--saying thats how I used her name- where in my post did YOU see me print that?? where I made any claims I was anyone's CLOSE friend??

all I said and meant was that a long time member was ( I apparently wrongly assumed) friendLY, as in "friends"--sending me both private and email messages doesnt define "close" friends for me frankly.not that its anyone's business but, IMO close friends share more intimate details of one's life, they remember birthdays, they join in celebrating happy events and support during sad ones. I never assumed, presumed or implied that sort of a relationship with Yvonne!!

when someone says to me to not mention her name as if we were close friends ( when I didnt) and then says nobody is just her friend--that implies ANY sort of friend-its hurtful and deserves a like response--of a "same to you, sorry I misjudged you" type

as far as my saying that Id drop the discussion HERE, I did just that.I dropped the discussion between Spank and me-- HERE. what I say and do anywhere else frankly isnt anyones business--I havent said a thing that I also havent made clear here.

he did end with
or is that what you want, here
and I AGREED that for the good of HERE, we could drop it HERE

Do I ask him what he says to YOU anywhere else about ME??? by say, PM or phone or email?? do I try to control what YOU say about ME anywhere else?? I happen to KNOW a lot about what you say about me behind my back--thanks to Joe before he died and others...but I do not allow that to interfere with interactions HERE

the fact that Spank may have a problem with not having control over what anyone ( or I) says or does elsewhere should have no bearing on HERE.

frankly you and he are better than that-- taking an out of context title and first sentence excerpt anyway--why doesnt he post the ENTIRE thread from Lymegate??

SO, I agreed to drop it HERE and I did...until you accused me of something erroneous and I exercised my right to refute it.

is it at all possible to move on, now???
I will, if you all will

IMO there are far more important things to squabble about!!

Re: The TwiLyme Zone

Posted: Fri 9 Apr 2010 14:24
by Yvonne
Fin24 wrote :
But please know that in MY country we do not initiate PERSONAL contact with acquaintances and go out of our way to make that contact away from where we interact UNLESS we are "friends".

If so then I'm sorry, but I didn't know it went so in America

And if I see 'friend' in a different context that does not mean that you're my enemy

And whatever you say or think about me I still care how you and Evan are doing


And that's not to be a 'good girl ' but that's how I'm


Yvonne