No, you misunderstood what I meant.Wow, Spanky, you will never fail to point out any error. English is not my primary language.
I meant that I would be embarrassed to have written any of that...all of that.
Not really.What about the rest of my post? Any comments?
I am well aware that this is not a courtroom (thanks) but I would suggest that it isn't supposed to be a popularity contest, either.
And the rules are there for the protection of all and it's always a good idea to be very specifc when you charge someone with any offense...in any setting. And there are published forum rules here. And those need to be followed for the protection of all.
And you need to allow the person to explain. You have to allow them an opportunity to present their side.
That's just common sense.
Oh...and the expression "how in the hell?"...is hardly considered to be rude or offensive...at least where I come from...except by those with extremely and unusually delicate and tender sensibilities. Just an expression to emphasize the bewilderment there, that I am feeling.
So...you may want to consider that English is NOT your primary language... and take that into consideration before offering an opinion about how "rude" that is...or is not.